I wanted to write today about insecurity and opportunity because I think a lot of us go through periods where we beat ourselves up over the way we look, don’t look, walk, talk, work, don’t work . . . you get the idea. Anyway, we’re so focused on these negative thoughts that we can end up blowing right past terrific opportunities as a result…This requires our attention!!!
I really got behind the “body type philosophy” because it is really about making a “better you” – not changing your shape or trying to make you follow something that is not natural; but rather, re-focusing your efforts to uncover the true you that has ALWAYS been there. This is the “you” that is healthy, confident and can do anything, and I mean that…
I don’t really talk much about the “pre-kids” me. I actually was one of “those people” – you know the type – size 4 pant suit, totally focused on her job, her clients & what was happening within the company. I was running so hard and so fast up the corporate ladder I couldn’t even hear my biological clock ticking. I was so totally focused on my work that I never really even saw myself having kids, getting married or (perish the thought) settling down. I thought I had it all under control when in fact, I was struggling with so many insecurities & so much chaos in my life that it seemed like food and exercise were really the only things I could control. So I did what most of us do – I channeled all of that stress and insecurity into food. For some people that means gaining 100 pounds in 6 months. For me it meant I struggled through diets 365 days a year. Food was my “out” – I couldn’t control what the market did with my business, but I could control how well I stayed on this or that fad diet. However, one thing that nobody really knew about me was that despite my size 4 pant suit and ambiance of “success”, the reality was that I nearly let the best opportunity of my life (my husband) pass right by, because I was so totally focused on “controlling” my own insecurities.
If you think you’re already a “good” water drinker, take this test first, and confirm it by tracking your ounces for a few days. What feels like “a lot” of water may be only half of what your body really needs! Until you measure, you don’t know for sure that you are on target. The general rule is that you need to drink at least ½ your body weight in ounces every day (OUNCES). So, look at this chart:
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